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My Life Manifest

I am turning 45 in November and on a journey to change my life. I have wasted so much time in my lifetime on absolute rubbish and lies, clinging to emotional crutches and physical addictions that I am getting increasingly more possessive of my time, thoughts, and how I am going to spend the better half of my life. Call it a mid-life crisis or growing up or being pre-menopausal but I am unwilling to continue this mediocre existence of mine. 

I`ve been watching many many videos as well as reading about energy, manifesting, meditation, and visualization and I am still navigating my way through all of this information while trying to remain faithful to my relationship with God as many of these exercises are geared toward energy and the "universe" and "life`s magic". I believe that God only wants the very best for me and that He wants me to prosper and achieve greatness as long as all of these blessings do not deter me from serving Him. So I will dream big, set my goals high, and write my life`s manifest but I will base my belief in God`s energy and His ability to lead me to achieve the greatness within me. 

Here is my life manifest.

I will clear my mind of any obstacles or limiting beliefs that may cloud my vision. 

I am worthy and deserving of God`s grace and blessings. I invite them into my life with gratefulness and humbleness. 

I am guided by the Holy Spirit, every day, to sharpen my instincts and show me the way. I will trust my gut and instincts while I remain steadfast in my belief that God is paving my way and will lead me every step of the way.  He will not forsake me on my path. I will achieve my goals as and when the time is right. I will be patient as my time is not God`s time and I will have a good attitude while I wait. 

I am guided by the Holy Spirit, every day, to sharpen my instincts and show me the way. I will trust my gut and instincts while I remain steadfast in my belief that God is paving my way and will lead me every step of the way.  He will not forsake me on my path. I will achieve my goals as and when the time is right. I will be patient as my time is not God`s time and I will have a good attitude while I wait. 

1. I will raise two kind, emotionally strong, productive members of society. Ladies that will be soft-spoken but strong-willed, that is driven but kind to themselves. I will lead them by example and I will set them on their way financially without jeopardizing their independence. I will have a great relationship with each one of them and them with each other. I envision them being best friends cheering each other on and being there for each other if I can`t. They will be without emotional baggage, without sorrows about the past, they will excel in life, be their authentic self, always be true to themselves, never apologize for who they are, and believe in themselves. They will be women of God, anchoring their strength in their faith. They will have devoted partners that are God sent, love them unconditionally and they will have happy marriages that are built on God`s foundation. 

2. I will be financially independent and have an abundant retirement. My money will work for me while I enjoy the fruits of my labor. I invite prosperity into my life and I trust my instincts to capitalize on opportunities to achieve financial freedom. 

3. I will give each daughter a good education, and I will buy them each their first property. Give them safety using a reliable vehicle and a safe home. Never shall I or my girls be dependent on a partner for financial security. If they choose to become business leaders I shall assist them in setting them up giving them their first step to success. I will not raise daughters without ambition, determination, and perseverance. I will raise them to know their worth, to believe in their ability to be successful and they will know that they are loved unconditionally. 

4. I will travel the world and so my girls will too, either together or as part of their own life journey. I will teach them the joys of learning about other cultures, and their history and experience the diversity of humanity. I want them to be seasoned travelers with passports full of stamps and I want them to take the best of what each journey brings and apply it to their lives for the greater good of others. 

5. I will build a successful consulting business. I will rescue companies and corporations from bankruptcy.  My services will be in high demand all over the world. I will be compensated abundantly. I will be a leader in business rescue practices and I will be an international speaker on the topic. I will rely on my instincts and talent, attention to detail, creativity, and analytical and critical thinking. I will surround myself with experts in their fields to assist me and at the same time grow their own business and success. I will win a big award and receive recognition for the forward-thinking work I do. I will be on the Forbes list of 100 most powerful women in the world.

6. I will leave a legacy. I will build the facilities God made me draw and they will be better and bigger and spread across the country. I will change children's lives by giving them a chance at greatness and I will provide a safe haven for women in abusive relationships. No longer will children and women be trapped in circumstances that are harmful, unsafe, and toxic because there are no other alternatives. Money and donations will flow abundantly and these facilities will flourish under sound management, caring staff, and God`s grace. God will bless each facility and touch each life within and He will heal, and protect and the seeds of hope will blossom in each soul that will set them onto a path of success. The cycle of poverty and desperation will be broken in each of the lives we touch and they will pay it forward when it is their time to bloom. 

7. I will meet the man of my dreams and my love story will be better than anyone Hollywood ever dreamed up. He will be a man of God, he will be devoted and loyal to me only, and he will love me unconditionally. My girls, he will love and cherish as his own. He will be tall and I will feel completely small and safe in his embrace. He will be the emotional, spiritual, and financial leader in our relationship - like God intended a man to be. I will find comfort in his leadership and I will follow his lead. He will be a great dancer and will be sociable as much as he will love being home with our family. He will ride horses with me and be a father to my daughters. We will show them what a happy marriage should look like and my daughters will look for partners based on our example. We will be physically compatible and without past fears and emotional baggage. 

8. I will achieve all my personal goals. I will be soft-spoken, and articulate and think before I speak or act, I will be elegant and sophisticated without jeopardizing my authenticity. I have a sharp sense of humor and I will retain that. I will be kind to myself. I will have no thoughts of self-doubt and I will not be affected by others` opinions of me. I will achieve my goal weight and I will maintain it. I will wear beautiful clothes that I love and I will make healthy choices for my life. Food will never again be a crutch or a curse. I will enjoy eating healthy and in moderation to maintain my weight for the rest of my life. My life story will be an inspiration for other women and young girls. 

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